Preserving Memories: The Journey of Caregiving Amidst Dementia at Deer Lodge Centre

Memories shape our identities, weaving a tapestry of experiences and connections that define who we are. At Deer Lodge Centre, these memories are cherished, especially when dementia clouds the vivid recollections of those we hold dear. Can one truly be a caretaker of another’s memories?

The individuals we care for at Deer Lodge Centre arrive with a trove of unique memories, each a cherished part of their identity. Yet, as dementia tightens its grip, these treasured recollections slip away, slowly erasing the bonds that connect them to us. It’s a challenging journey where “the person that was” fades into a haze, leaving loved ones grappling with the shifting sands of memory.

Within the corridors of Deer Lodge Centre, a collaborative effort between family members like Patrice and dedicated staff strives to uphold the essence of “the person that was.” Patrice, whose sister Janet resides at the center, speaks of a profound desire to preserve Janet’s memories, to honour and celebrate her existence even as the threads of her life unravel in the labyrinth of dementia.

Patrice shares, “I feel a remarkable desire to keep Janet’s memories intact… It’s important for me to help staff include small connections from Janet’s life, to spark a memory in her that says this is who I was, this is what I liked.”

The support received at Deer Lodge Centre plays a pivotal role in empowering families and staff to navigate the complexities of dementia while honouring the lives entrusted to their care. Your support extends the resources needed to champion a unique memory care approach, delaying cognitive decline and preserving cherished recollections for our loved ones at the center.

Dementia, with its relentless grasp, robs individuals of their essence. However, at Deer Lodge Centre, an innovative memory care approach integrates sensory stimulation—engaging taste, smell, vision, hearing, and touch—to reignite fading memories. Your contribution aids in fortifying this critical program, crucial in providing solace amidst the chaos of dementia.

For Patrice, her commitment to Janet runs deep. Through evoking positive memories and emotions, she gently guides Janet to communicate, a silent testament to their unbreakable bond. Patrice’s unwavering presence embodies reassurance, echoing, “We’re sisters, and I will always be here for you.”

The progression of dementia inevitably dims the ability to communicate, plunging individuals into isolation and confusion. Sensory stimulation emerges as a lifeline, offering a gateway for those struggling to articulate their thoughts. It soothes, uplifts mood, and enhances overall well-being—a respite in the tumultuous journey.

Patrice reflects, “Her dignity is important… I hope that through our efforts we can bring her joy at this point in her life.”

Your support becomes the cornerstone of Deer Lodge Centre’s memory care, nurturing Janet and every resident in their care. Together, let us continue this unwavering commitment to serve, uplift, and honour the cherished memories that define those in our care. Your contribution today fuels hope, fortifying the sanctuary where memories are safeguarded amidst the storm of dementia.

Join us as we champion a journey where memories endure, cherished and safeguarded, amidst the labyrinth of fading recollections. Your support—vital, unwavering—ignites hope and ensures that at Deer Lodge Centre, every memory counts.